Qualities Women Look For In A Man
女人最希望在男人身上看到的特質(zhì)

Every woman has a laundry list of attributes they desire in a partner. Here are 10 desirable qualities that women look for in a man -- from the way he walks into a room to never breaking a promise -- and the reasons why every man should aspire to display these attributes to the opposite sex.
每個(gè)女人都想在她們的另一半身上看到她們希望其具備的一長(zhǎng)串特質(zhì)。這里有10條女人想在男人身上看到的品質(zhì)特征——從他走進(jìn)房間的方式和從不食言的作風(fēng)——以及為什么每個(gè)男人都應(yīng)該在女人面前展示這些特質(zhì)的原因。

1. Be Humorous
幽默

Women want a man who can make them laugh, or at least show them the humor in even the most uncomfortable situation. The ability to joke at the stresses of life, and being in a relationship, is a must.
女人想要一個(gè)能夠使她們開(kāi)懷大笑，或者是能夠在她們不適的情況下展現(xiàn)出幽默感的男人。像這樣在生活的壓力下依舊能開(kāi)玩笑的能力，不論在生活中還是在一段關(guān)系的維持中都是必須具備的。

2. Be A Teacher
當(dāng)一位老師

Women often want a man who’ll give them a peek into another world. Teach them something they don’t know about a subject you’re passionate about.
女人通常希望男人能使她們窺探到另一個(gè)世界，教她們一些你所熱愛(ài)的但是她們不了解的事情。

3. Be A Good Dad (Eventually)
做一個(gè)好父親（最后）

Being a good dad involves qualities like patience and compassion -- qualities women want in a partner for their own needs and the eventual needs of their kids.
做一個(gè)好父親所需要的品質(zhì)包括耐心和同情心——這是女人自己對(duì)于伴侶的需求和他們的孩子的最終需求。

4. Be Kind
友好

Kindness is consistently ranked as one of the best and sexiest qualities a man can have. A man who treats you right, is nice to other people and gives back to his community is a catch.
友好一直是一個(gè)男人能擁有的最優(yōu)秀最性感的品質(zhì)。如果一個(gè)男人十分寵愛(ài)你，對(duì)其他人也很好，并且能回報(bào)社會(huì)做出貢獻(xiàn)，那么這個(gè)男人是十分搶手的。

5. Be Generous
慷慨

There are two different types of generosity . The first is being generous with possessions -- donating gifts or money to charities or those less fortunate. The second is being generous with time -- spending time with people in need of a sympathetic ear or a shoulder to cry on, or with the special woman in your life.
有兩種不同種類(lèi)的慷慨。第一種是在財(cái)務(wù)方面的慷慨——給慈善機(jī)構(gòu)和那些不幸的人捐贈(zèng)禮物和金錢(qián)。第二種是在時(shí)間方面的慷慨——愿意花時(shí)間與那些需要被傾聽(tīng)和安慰的人身上，這個(gè)人或者是你生命中特別的女人。

6. Be Mysterious
神秘

It’s true that women love excitement, especially in a new relationship, and there is no better way to keep that excitement alive than being slightly secretive. In the later stages of a relationship, keep it mysterious with things like weekend plans or surprise gifts for special occasions.
在一段全新的關(guān)系中，女人容易愛(ài)激動(dòng)這是事實(shí)，但要保持這樣的激情最好的辦法是留有一些秘密。在一段關(guān)系發(fā)展到后來(lái)階段，可以嘗試用特別的周末計(jì)劃、驚喜的禮物或者是參與特殊的場(chǎng)合來(lái)保持神秘感。

7. Be Dependable
可靠

Women want a man who’ll keep a promise and stay true to his word, even if it’s something as simple as dinner plans or a weekend getaway.
女人想要的是一個(gè)許下承諾，然后信守諾言的男人，即使是像晚餐安排和周末度假這樣一些簡(jiǎn)單的事。

8. Be Faithful
忠誠(chéng)

Prove from the start that you’re faithfully committed -- watch that wandering eye in public, and don't go exchanging flirtatious texts with old flames -- and she’ll do the same.
從一開(kāi)始就證明你的承諾是忠誠(chéng)的——注意在公眾場(chǎng)合下眼神不要游離到別人身上，也不要跟前任互相發(fā)調(diào)情短信。這樣而她也會(huì)忠誠(chéng)于你。

9. Be Confident
自信

Confidence is crucial. A confident man can handle unfamiliar situations with ease and assurance, and won't be rattled if he commits a minor gaffe, even if everyone's watching.
自信是至關(guān)重要的。一個(gè)自信的人可以泰然自若地處理各種不熟悉的情形，即使在別人的目光下犯了一個(gè)小錯(cuò)誤，他也不會(huì)驚慌失措。

10. Be Passionate
充滿(mǎn)激情

Be passionate about her completely -- show interest in her not only sexually but emotionally as well. Take an interest in the things that make her tick -- from her work to her volunteer work, her hobbies and life goals.
對(duì)她充滿(mǎn)熱情——不僅僅在性方面表現(xiàn)出興趣，還要在情感上表現(xiàn)出熱情的態(tài)度。同時(shí)對(duì)她要做的事也感興趣，這些事情包括從她的工作到她的志愿者服務(wù)工作，以及她的愛(ài)好和生活目標(biāo)。

（翻譯：索菲亞）

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