怎樣才能知道你和你的另一半是不是完美而又很契合的一對呢，下面這九條列出了從日常生活到價(jià)值觀等各個(gè)方面，給你做個(gè)參考哦~~

1. You're both independent
1、你們都是獨(dú)立的。

Each of you has a social life outside of the relationship. You're not a constant "two for one" situation, which means you're each confident and secure. It's wonderful when this happens, because it's so irritating when someone can't be seen without their better half.
在你們的伴侶關(guān)系之外，每個(gè)人都有自己的社交生活。你們不是一直處于如影相隨的狀態(tài)，也就是說你們都是自信且有安全感的。如果是這樣的話，那是非常好的，因?yàn)槿绻腥艘驗(yàn)闆]有另一半連門都不出，那就不太愉快了。

2. You never bash each other on social media.
2、在社交媒體，你們從不攻擊對方。

If you have fights, they're done with dignity and behind closed doors. And if an argument pops up in public (which it usually never does), you agree to talk about it later, which is relieving to everyone in your presence. No one will ever see you go tit for tat on Facebook.
在你們有爭執(zhí)的時(shí)候，那就關(guān)起門來從容地解決掉。如果確實(shí)不可避免地在公眾場合起了爭執(zhí)，但是你們同意稍后解決，這樣一來，對在場的所有人都是件很釋然的事情。通常沒有人會(huì)看到你們在臉書上針鋒相對。

3. You aren't?mushy?nline.
3、網(wǎng)絡(luò)上不總是卿卿我我的。

Too much gushing over each other on social media is annoying, although a little bit is tender and great. But the fact is when you're an awesome couple, you explain how much you mean to each other in person, not just digitally.
在社交媒體上適當(dāng)?shù)谋舜饲楦惺惆l(fā)可以表現(xiàn)對彼此的溫柔，太多的話總是讓人很討厭。但事實(shí)上，優(yōu)秀的伴侶們總是私下里表達(dá)對彼此的重要性，而不是通過照片。

4. You disagree sometimes
4、你們有意見相左的時(shí)候。

The couple that never fights or has a different point of view probably has a boring relationship. Of course, no one likes the constantly fighting couples, but two people who are secure in themselves and in their relationship can disagree but still respect each other.
那些從來不爭執(zhí)或者意見總是高度統(tǒng)一的伴侶可能并不是一健種康的兩性關(guān)系。當(dāng)然，沒有人會(huì)喜歡總是吵架。但兩個(gè)有安全感且處于一段安全伴侶關(guān)系中的人總有意見相左的時(shí)候，但他們總會(huì)彼此互相尊重。

5. You like to socialize and have fun with other people.
5、你喜歡與別人一起參加娛樂和社交活動(dòng)。

While you don't mind a good night on the couch, you still like to mingle amongst your friends. There's nothing worse than the couple who never leaves their house once they’ve started dating. Secure people are comfortable at home with each other but also enjoy doing things apart.
盡管你不介在（與伴侶靠在）沙發(fā)上度過美好的夜晚，但也仍然愿意與朋友們一起浪。這樣總比兩個(gè)人從開始約會(huì)就不愿意離開家要好一些。安全感強(qiáng)的人們既享受和伴侶一起的家庭時(shí)間，同時(shí)也喜歡各自做自己的事情。

6. You still turn each other on.
6、你們?nèi)匀豢梢渣c(diǎn)燃彼此內(nèi)心的火熱。

The best couples find each other sexy and are affectionate, but not in that "Let's grind against the bar like we're 18" sort of way.
最好的伴侶總是會(huì)覺得彼此很性感且想要親近，但這絕不是那種“我們就像自己18歲那樣去泡吧”的感覺。

7. You champion each other's successes.
7、你們?yōu)楸舜说某晒炔省?/strong>

People in amazing relationships applaud the other person's triumphs and are there for each other during down moments. These are two individuals who want the other person to be strong and happy, not two insecure people each looking to do better than the other.
處于健康兩性關(guān)系的人們總是在另一半成功的時(shí)候歡呼，在失落的時(shí)候?yàn)樗麄兗佑痛驓?。這兩個(gè)單獨(dú)的個(gè)體總是期望另一半能夠堅(jiān)強(qiáng)快樂，而不是兩個(gè)沒有安全感的人想著要比另一半過得更好。

8. You have separate hobbies and interests.
8、你們有各自的興趣愛好。

Even if the other person finds the hobby weird, he or she encourages his or her loved one to enjoy it at will.
即便你的伴侶有很奇怪的愛好，你也應(yīng)該去鼓勵(lì)ta按照自己的意愿盡情享受。

9. You have enough in common.
9、你們有很多共同點(diǎn)。

Opposites might attract, but eventually they can repel. It's OK to have differences, but the best couples share values and some common touchpoints in order to go the distance.
有對立面可能會(huì)彼此吸引，但最終可能讓人生厭。差異可以有，但是最好的伴侶為了拉近彼此的距離，往往要分享自己的價(jià)值觀和共同的觀點(diǎn)。

The key to being a fabulous couple lies in two well-suited and confident people matching up together, plain and simple. Neediness isn't attractive. Two independent beings coming together for the greater good of their relationship. That's just sexy.
成為一對最登對的伴侶關(guān)鍵在于兩個(gè)適合彼此、充滿自信的人簡簡單單地在一起?；ハ嘈枰⒉皇腔ハ辔?。畢竟兩個(gè)獨(dú)立的人在一起是為了創(chuàng)造一段美妙的情感。這樣就會(huì)很性感啦！

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