【新地平線英語】(第三冊)愛的構(gòu)成(5/7)
來源:滬江聽寫酷
2013-09-26 21:00
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愛也需要另一種更為難得的能力──放手的能力。。。
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Together they camped, climbed mountains, sat by the sea and explored city streets and sleepy villages. "I learned more about being a father in the last two months than in all my son's 21 years," the father told me shortly after their trip. Everyone's life should have room for loves worth risking sizable pieces of time we think we can't spare.
We should not mislead ourselves into thinking that the ones we love must be like us. The key is to recognize and appreciate our differences. Those differences provide the mystery and wonder of human relationships.
Love needs another, harder-to-find quality as well, the ability to let go.
In the early years of my marriage, I had faulty notions that my husband should want to be with me all the time.
他們一道宿營,一道爬山,一道坐在海邊,一道探索城市的街道和幽靜的鄉(xiāng)村。在他們旅行后不久,他父親告訴我:“在過去的兩個月里,我學到的為父之道比我在我兒子成長的21年的歲月里學到的都多?!泵總€人的生活,都應該為愛的人留出空間,為我們愛的人抽出我們認為抽不出的時間是值得的。
我們不應該誤導自己,認為我們所愛的人必須像自己一樣。關(guān)鍵是認可和欣賞我們間的差異。這些差異使得人們之間的關(guān)系有了一絲神秘和新奇。
愛也需要另一種更為難得的能力──放手的能力。
在我結(jié)婚的頭幾年,我錯誤地認為我丈夫應該想時刻和我在一起。