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瓜熟蒂落之愛就像一個有生命的機體。它跟一棵橡樹的生命一樣,從土里的一粒種子開始。。。

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Mature love is like a living organism. It parallels the life of an oak tree, growing slowly from a seed in the mud to a slender trunk with barely any leaves and finally into its sheltering glory. We cannot manipulate or speed up the amount of years it needs to grow, but must instead, with wit and patience, appreciate one another's differences and share one another's joys and pains over time. So it is sad when divorces are caused by small provocations, when parents and children give up on one another, when friendships fall apart at the first injury, when we give up on love. Too often we say "farewell" to someone we have loved without due thought and end up paying an emotional toll that is quite costly.
瓜熟蒂落之愛就像一個有生命的機體。它跟一棵橡樹的生命一樣,從土里的一粒種子開始,慢慢地長成幾乎無葉的細(xì)枝,最后枝繁葉茂、足以遮蔭,成就其輝煌。我們不可調(diào)控或者加速其成長所需的年月,相反,我們必須用才智和耐心,始終欣賞相互間的差異,分享彼此的快樂和痛苦。因此,如果因小怒而離婚,父母孩子相互不信任,在第一次受傷害后中斷友誼,或不再相信愛,那是令人痛心的事情。 我們常常未經(jīng)深思熟慮就向某人說“再見”,結(jié)果付出了非常昂貴的感情代價。