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One of the nice things about surrendering to the fact that life isn't fair is that it keeps us from feeling sorry for ourselves by encouraging us to do the very best we can with what we have. We know it's not "Life's job" to make everything perfect, it's our own challenge. Surrendering to this fact also keeps us from feeling sorry for others because we are reminded that everyone is dealt a different hand; everyone has unique strengths and problems in the process of growing up, facing the reality and making decisions; and everyone has those times that they feel victimized or unfairly treated.
承認(rèn)生活并不公平這一事實(shí)的一個(gè)好處便是他激勵(lì)我們?nèi)ケM己所能,而不再自我感傷。我們知道讓每件事情完美并不是“生活的使命”,而是我們自己對(duì)生活的挑戰(zhàn)。承認(rèn)這一事實(shí)也會(huì)讓我們不再為他人遺憾,因?yàn)槲覀冾I(lǐng)悟到每個(gè)人都被分與一副不同的牌;每個(gè)人在成長(zhǎng)、面對(duì)現(xiàn)實(shí)、做種種決定的過程中都有各自不同的能力和難題,每個(gè)人都有感到成了犧牲品或遭不公正對(duì)待的時(shí)候。