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Pierre Salinger
California


Self-image is the picture you have of yourself, the sort of person you believe you are. Included in your self-image are the categories in which you place yourself, the roles you play and other similar descriptors you use to identify yourself. If you tell an acquaintance you are a grandfather who recently lost his wife and who does volunteer work on weekends, several elements of your self-image are brought to light — the roles of grandparent, widower and conscientious citizen. But self-image is more than how you picture yourself; it also involves how others see you. Three types of feedback from others are indicative of how they see us: conformation, rejection, and disconfirmation. Conformation occurs when others treat you in a manner consistent with who you believe you are.You believe you have leadership abilities and your boss put you in charge of a new work team. On the other hand, rejection occurs when others treat you in a manner that is inconsistent with yourself definition. Pierre Salinger was appointed senator from California, but subsequently lost his first election. He thought he was a good public official, but the voters obviously thought otherwise — Their vote was inconsistent with his self-concept. The third type of feedback is disconfirmation, which occurs when others fail to respond to your notion of self by responding neutrally. A student writes what he thinks is an excellent composition, but the teacher writes no encouraging remarks. Rather than relying on how others classify you, consider how you identify yourself. The way in which you identify yourself is the best reflection of your self-image.
自我形象是你自己的印象,你覺得你是什么樣的人。包括在 你的自我形象中你將自己歸到什么類別。你過去常常將你所 扮演的角色和其他類似的描述來定義你自己。如果你告訴一 個熟人你最近失去了妻子且在周末做義工的祖父,你的自我 形象中的每個元素會點亮它----祖父母的角色鰥夫和認真負 責的市民。 但是自我形象不僅僅是你對自己的想象,也包含了別人是如 何看待你的。這里有三種類型的來自他人的反饋,這些反饋 是陳述性的,別人如何看待我們的:一致、拒絕、不確定。 一致出現(xiàn)在其他人用一致的方式對待你認為自己是那種類型 的的人。你認為你有領(lǐng)導能力,你的老板讓你去管理你一個 新的工作團隊。另一方面,拒絕出現(xiàn)在當其他人接受了你自 己的定義卻采用不一致的方式對待你。Pierre Salinger是從 加利福尼亞來的參議員,但是卻輸了他的第一次選舉卻輸了 。他認為他是一個優(yōu)秀的政府工作人員,但是投票者顯然不 這么認為----他們的投票與他的自我定義不同。第三種反饋 類型是不確定,出現(xiàn)在當其他人沒有成功地回應(yīng)你的自我觀 點并保持中立。一個學生寫了他認為很優(yōu)秀的作文,但是老 師沒有寫下任何鼓勵的評價。而不是取決于其他人如何將你 分類,考慮你是如何定義你自己的。你定義你自己的方法是 對自我形象的最好反映。(寫的不是很好···) ——譯文來自: xiaoweizhuan