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Martians

The most frequently expressed complaint women have about men is that men don't listen. A man completely ignores her when she speaks, assesses what's bothering her, and then he offers her a solution to make her feel better. No matter how many times she tells him that he's not listening, and he keeps doing the same thing. She wants sympathy, but he thinks she wants solutions. The most frequently expressed complaint men have about women is that women are always trying to change them. When a woman loves a man, she feels responsible to assist him improve the way he does things. No matter how much he resists her help, she persists. She thinks she's nurturing him, while he feels he's being controlled. Martians value power, competency, efficiency, and achievement. Achieving goals is very important to a Martian, because it's the way for him to prove his competence and thus feel good about himself.
女人抱怨男人最多的地方是男人不會(huì)傾聽(tīng)。當(dāng)女人說(shuō)話時(shí)，男人完全不理不睬，思考一下困擾女人的問(wèn)題，然后拋給女人一個(gè)解決的辦法以安慰她就算完事。無(wú)論女人抱怨多少次，說(shuō)男人沒(méi)有傾聽(tīng)，他依然我行我素。女人需要同情，可男人總以為她需要的是解決辦法。 男人最常抱怨的是女人總試圖改變他們。當(dāng)女人愛(ài)上一個(gè)男人時(shí)，她便覺(jué)得幫助他改進(jìn)做事的方式是自己的責(zé)任。無(wú)論男人怎樣拒絕她的幫助，女人都一再堅(jiān)持。女人認(rèn)為自己是在調(diào)教男人，而男人卻覺(jué)得自己被控制了。男人崇尚權(quán)力、個(gè)人能力、效率和成功。對(duì)他們而言，實(shí)現(xiàn)目標(biāo)非常重要，因?yàn)檫@能證明他們自身的能力，讓他們感覺(jué)良好。