15. Go to a movie (but don’t actually watch it).
去電影院看電影(但心思并不一定用在電影上)。

Go to a movie together and make-out like love-struck high school teenagers. I wouldn’t advise this if you’re going to see Schindler’s List, but otherwise it’ll be tons of fun!
一起去電影院,打扮成像剛墜入愛河熱戀中的高中生。但不建議你看《辛德勒名單》類的電影,其他的電影會樂趣多多的。

16. “How was your day?”
“今天過得怎么樣?”

Ask that simple question when your partner gets home from work to show them how much you care.
愛人下班回家簡單問候一下,代表你很在意對方。

17. Focus!
專注對方。

Put down the phone, turn off the TV, make eye contact, and say, “What would you like to talk about?” Just because you’re hearing your partner’s words doesn’t mean you’re comprehending them. Taking a brief moment to do this will make them feel loved and important.
放下電話、關掉電視、兩人對視,認真地問,“你想談談嗎?” 因為你只是聽到了他TA的話,并不代表你就真正理解TA的話。短短幾分鐘的專注交談時間,關鍵在于這會讓對方感受到那種被愛的感覺。

18. Blast from the past.
重溫往日情懷。

If you’ve been together for a long time, think about some of the special places you went to in the early days of your relationship and revisit them in the present. I wager you’ll both be flooded by long-forgotten memories when you get there.
如果你們在一起已經很長時間了,考慮去一下戀愛時去過的地方重溫一下過去的美好。到了那里你們都會陷入熱戀那段美好回憶中。

19. Why so serious?
何必這么嚴肅認真呢?

Have tickle fights, go to a comedy club, make-out in a photo booth. Life doesn’t have to be so serious all the time, and laughter will help you grow closer to the person you love.
追著撓癢癢,去看喜劇演出,到電話亭打個調情電話。生活不必一味嚴肅認真的,笑聲有助于你和愛人拉近關系。

20. Before you go to work…
上班前……

Tell your partner that you can’t wait to see them when you get back and give them a quick kiss.
上班出門前,對愛人說,等不及下班回家見啦!再親吻一下對方。

21. Look at the stars.
數(shù)星星!

Grab a blanket, a bottle of wine, and the hand of your dearest. Lay under the stars, relax, look at the constellations, have a drink, and talk about life.
帶上毯子、拿上瓶酒、和愛人手拉手去數(shù)星星。放松地躺在草地上,仰望星空中的星座,和愛人喝著酒談著人生。

22. Take up a hobby.
培養(yǎng)一種愛好。

Dance class? Crafting? Gardening? Acting? A new language? Pick your pleasure. Figure out a hobby both you and your partner would enjoy and pursue it together to strengthen your relationship.
參加舞蹈班?手工藝班?園藝班?表演班?語言班?找自己感興趣的事兒來做。找你和愛人一起都享受和追求的愛好來增進關系。

23. Ride a ferris wheel.
坐摩天輪!體驗一下!

And don’t forget to get some cotton candy when you’re done!
坐摩天輪的時候,別忘了吃著棉花糖。

24. Dress up.
精心打扮一下。

Remember how when you were first dating and you spent hours agonizing over what you should wear? I’m not saying you have to take it to that extent, but some people do tend to let their style go downhill if they get too comfortable in a relationship. Turn the tables by dressing up as if it is your very first date together and you want to be certain you WOW them as much as possible.
還記得你們初次約會時,你用了多長時間打扮自己,絞盡腦汁地想自己到底該穿什么衣服。并不是說你打扮成初次約會時的樣子,但有些情侶在進入穩(wěn)定的關系后,就開始不注重自己的穿衣打扮了。一改常態(tài)就像初次約會一樣精心打扮一下,給對方煥然一新的感覺。

25. Schedule a “play” date.
抽出一天時間,盡情“玩”上一天。

Have kids? It might be tough the find the time for intimacy, so plan to get a sitter one-day-per-week so you can have some alone time with your partner. Go out on a date and then come home, where the real fun begins. I know scheduling might not sound sexy in theory but it is in practice, and believe me, there’s nothing like a little anticipation to spice up your love life.
有孩子?二人很難有親密時間,找保姆照看孩子,一周抽出一天和愛人單獨相處的時間。出去一天再回家,這樣才會感受到好戲剛開頭而已。我知道理想很豐滿現(xiàn)實很骨干的道理,但要相信,愛情生活中的小小期待是最美妙的。

26. Have a friendly competition.
打一場友誼賽。

Bowling, putt-putt, darts, pool, or even the Nintendo Wii all apply. Make a bet with your partner: the loser gives a full body massage to the winner.
保齡球、乒乓球、飛鏢、游泳、抑或任天堂Wii什么都可以。和你的愛人打個賭:輸家給贏家做全身按摩。

27. Surprise your love with a thoughtful gift.
給愛人精心挑選一個禮物。

I’m not talking about the obvious occasions like birthdays, anniversaries, Valentine’s, and so on — and I’m not suggesting you need to empty your bank account either. But surprise your partner with a little gift that will be meaningful for them when they least expect it if you want to brighten their day!
不建議在生日、紀念日、情人節(jié)等等的節(jié)日場合,也不建議你花光銀行存款買個多么貴重的禮物。但要給愛人買個小禮物制造一個驚喜還是有意義的,他們對這一天也是很期望的!

28. Hold hands and go on a stroll.
手拉手出去散散步。

Enjoy each other’s presence in silence and be happy that you have such a special person in your life.
手拉手享受一下靜靜地散步的感受,這個很特別的人出現(xiàn)在你的生活中,讓你過得無比幸福。