進入12月了，新年的氣息也越來越濃了，那新年對于我們每個人都有著怎樣的意味呢？ Hints: New Year renewal dreamy evaporate
The New Year always brings with it a cultural tradition of new possibilities. We see it as a chance for renewal. We begin to dream of new possible selves. We design our ideal self or an image that is quite different from what we are now. For some of us, we roll that dreamy film in our heads just because it's the beginning of a New Year, but we are serious about making changes. We just make some half hard resolution and it evaporates after a week or two. The experience makes us feel less successful and leads us to discount our ability to change in the future. It's not the changes impossible, but that it won't last unless our resolutions are supported with plans for implementation. We have to make our intentions manageable by detailing the specific steps that will carry us to our goal.
新年總是伴隨的新的可能性一同到來，我們都把新年看做是一個洗心革面的機會。我們開始想象自己新的可能性，我們設想出了一個完美的自己或者和現(xiàn)在完全不同的自己。對我們中的一些人來說，我們會在頭腦中放映這種“夢想劇場”只是因為這是一年的開始，但是我們對待改變的態(tài)度是很慎重的。我們只是下定一些難不難的決心，一兩周之后這個決心就人間蒸發(fā)了。這種經歷讓我們變得沒有那么成功，未來的可能性也打了折扣。不是說改變不可能，而是說沒有可行性的計劃支撐，決心是不會持久的。我們需要把決心具體成明確的步驟，才能讓我們朝著目標的方向前進。 ——譯文來自: Ameliawo