I may have been some pathetic, insecure mess after the party, but do not mistake that for me being a pushover. Because I do not let guys mess with my head anymore.
那次派對(duì)后，我也許是有些可悲、脆弱，但你不要以為那樣我就很好惹，因?yàn)槲以僖膊粫?huì)和你們這些男人糾纏了?！段砣沼洝返谝患镜诰偶?/strong>

Midway through the first season, Caroline already started to realize that you don't need a guy's approval to have self-satisfaction. Yes, you can still get upset and hurt by them, but as long as you know when it's time to move on, let it go, or just brush their stupid actions off, that's what matters.
在《吸血鬼日記》第一季劇情播到中間部分的時(shí)候，Caroline開(kāi)始意識(shí)到一個(gè)人的自我滿足感其實(shí)是不需要通過(guò)男人來(lái)展示的。你可以繼續(xù)因?yàn)樗麄儾婚_(kāi)心或是被他們傷害，但是只要到了你覺(jué)得該放下的時(shí)候，那就讓這段感情過(guò)去吧。讓那些男人繼續(xù)2下去吧，因?yàn)槟莻€(gè)時(shí)候他們做什么已經(jīng)與你無(wú)關(guān)了。明白這個(gè)道理最重要。