It's hard for me to show kindness to people that hate me. I'm not that evolved.
對那些討厭我的人好，對我來說太難了。我思想境界沒那么高。——《吸血鬼日記》第一季16集

With her own take on "Haters gonna hate," Caroline demonstrated a surprising level of self-awareness. Giving the cold shoulder might not be the most "evolved" thing to do, but simply put: there are some relationships that can never be fixed. Why bother repeatedly demeaning yourself in hopes of a happy ending that will never come? Just cut your losses and move on.
Caroline對于“討厭你的人就是討厭你”的理解驚人的深刻。冷淡對待對不喜歡你的人雖然不是最好的方式，但是也很明顯的表明了自己的態(tài)度：這段關(guān)系是沒法修補的了。沒必要對沒可能發(fā)生的結(jié)果充滿希望，受折磨的只會是你自己。遇到這種情況，就該放下該放下的，繼續(xù)你的人生吧。