Stop making big decisions and focus on closing the gap with where you want to be.
不再做不切實(shí)際的決定,而是把精力集中于如何縮小夢(mèng)想與現(xiàn)實(shí)的差距。
A successful life is not made of easy, clean cut choices. It looks like this:
成功的生活不是簡(jiǎn)單利落的做幾個(gè)選擇就能獲得。成功的目標(biāo)圖應(yīng)該是這樣的:
Sadly, far too many look like this:
很遺憾,很多人的目標(biāo)圖是這樣的:
Have you ever seen a guy desperately enamoured with a girl, but he can't bear to talk to her? Or someone who wants to get fit, but they won't step in a gym? How about someone who wants better career options but stays exactly where they are?
你有見(jiàn)過(guò)男孩深深迷戀著女孩,卻不敢跟她說(shuō)話嗎?或者有些人想減肥,卻沒(méi)有進(jìn)過(guò)健身房?那有沒(méi)有見(jiàn)過(guò)一些人希望有更好的職業(yè)選擇,卻停在當(dāng)下、固步自封嗎?
Start take lots of continuous small steps. Take something you love doing - or if you're not sure what that is, something you'd like to try. And move towards it now.
開(kāi)始通過(guò)小步驟不斷積累。著手做一些你喜歡的事——如果你不確定是什么,做你想嘗試的事。從現(xiàn)在開(kāi)始向目標(biāo)前進(jìn)。
You don't have to choose between a well-paid job you don't like and the unknown. You have countless other options:
你不必在不了解的事和高薪工作之間做選擇。你還有很多其他選擇:
1. Start up a small business in your evenings
1. 利用晚上時(shí)間開(kāi)展新業(yè)務(wù)
2. Ask your boss what you could do for them to get promoted
2. 詢(xún)問(wèn)老板要做什么可以獲得晉升
3. Teach yourself a new skill that interests you
3. 自學(xué)你感興趣的技能
4. Write a blog or a book
4. 寫(xiě)博客或書(shū)
Some steps will lead to greater things. But as long as you sit feeling paralysed, I can assure you nothing will change at all.
不積跬步無(wú)以成千里。但只要你覺(jué)得自己做不好,我可以向你保證任何事都不會(huì)發(fā)生變化。
Do not, and I shall repeat for emphasis, do not defer this until a "better time". If you make a habit of that, you'll wake up one idle Monday and wonder how you let your whole life fly away.
千萬(wàn)不要,我要重復(fù)強(qiáng)調(diào)下,千萬(wàn)不要拖延以等待“更好的時(shí)機(jī)”。如果你把拖延變成習(xí)慣,你將在某個(gè)周一慵懶的醒來(lái),然后想你如何讓一生都飛速流逝。
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