女人眼中的好男人:女人最看重男人的6大品質(zhì)
作者:yxflying 譯
來(lái)源:Huffington Post
2012-10-06 09:00
things
At the end of the day, all a woman wants is to be adored. Yes, it's that simple. It means taking an interest in what she wants, what she is about, what she values and what she is striving for, while being nurturing. In truth, what any and everyone wants is to feel is important! Adoration speaks to this.
在一天結(jié)束之際,女性想要的就是得到別人的喜歡。是的,就是這么簡(jiǎn)單。也就是說(shuō)在照顧她時(shí),要關(guān)心她想要的東西,關(guān)心她的為人,關(guān)心她所看重的和她所爭(zhēng)取的東西。事實(shí)上,任何人都希望覺(jué)得自己是重要的!受到別人的愛(ài)慕就能證明自己的重要性。
Women and men may have different languages, each one struggling to understand the other. But, perhaps if we each take time to think about what we want from that special someone, we'll probably find they would like the same thing in return.
女性和男性可能有著不同的表達(dá)方式,彼此之間都試圖去理解對(duì)方。然而,也許如果我們都花時(shí)間去思考一下想從另一半那里得到什么,我們可能會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)他們也想得到同樣的東西。
chivalry
Chivalry
紳士風(fēng)度
Chivalry is not dead! A woman notices whether a man opens the door for her, walks closer to the traffic or pulls out a chair for her when she sits. This is something that separates any man from the pack.
紳士風(fēng)度并沒(méi)有滅亡!女性會(huì)注意到是否有男性為她開(kāi)門(mén)、和男性一起走路時(shí)男性是否會(huì)讓女性走在內(nèi)側(cè)、當(dāng)她想坐下時(shí)男性是否會(huì)為她拉出座椅。通過(guò)這些能看出來(lái)男士是否有紳士風(fēng)度。
available
Emotionally Available
表達(dá)自己的情感
A quick web search on relationship woes will reveal that being emotionally unavailable is a disease claiming the lives of many men. If you are a man who is afflicted by this disease, you would do well to seek help immediately! Being a man means being able to share how you feel and not worry about how you'll be seen.
在網(wǎng)上快速搜索一下有關(guān)戀愛(ài)中困境的內(nèi)容,你會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)很多男人都患有情感表達(dá)障礙。如果你是一名患有情感表達(dá)障礙的男士,你要立刻尋求幫助!是男人就該能分享自己的感受而不要去擔(dān)心別人的想法。
detail
Attention To Detail
注意細(xì)節(jié)
Women enjoy a man who pays attention to the small details and can recall them at a much later time. This will win any man huge points! For example, let's say your woman of interest tells an inconsequential story about lunch with a friend and in passing she mentions the name of the restaurant. Two weeks later you ask her, "How was the restaurant XYZ you went with your friend the other day? I was thinking we should go out for dinner tonight." A man will be instantly elevated to a level of superhero status, if at a later time, he can remember the small details and demonstrate he was really listening.
女性喜歡那些能注意細(xì)節(jié)并在稍后能回想起細(xì)節(jié)的男士。這個(gè)特點(diǎn)會(huì)為男士贏得超高分! 舉個(gè)例子,假如你是名男士,你感興趣的那名女士講述了她和朋友吃午飯的這樣一個(gè)無(wú)關(guān)簡(jiǎn)要的故事,在講述的過(guò)程中,她提到了那家餐館的名字。兩周后,你問(wèn)她,“你覺(jué)得你那天和朋友一起去的那家XYZ餐館怎么樣呀?我在想今天晚上我們?nèi)ツ睦锍燥垺!?如果一名男士在一段時(shí)間后,還能記起一些細(xì)節(jié),就說(shuō)明他真的是在用心傾聽(tīng),他的地位會(huì)在瞬間提升到超級(jí)英雄那個(gè)級(jí)別。
compliment
Compliment Genuinely and Compliment Unexpectedly
真心地贊美和出乎意料地贊美
Yes, she may look great when she is dressed up and you should definitely let her know. But, it is also important to let a woman know just how special she is to you in her day-to-day life. See her laugh, smile or dimple in her cheek and compliment her on it.
當(dāng)然,如果她打扮了一番,可能看上去很漂亮,你一定要贊美她。但是,讓她知道她每天對(duì)你而言有多特別也是相當(dāng)重要的??粗笮?、微笑或露出酒窩,并對(duì)她加以贊美。
honesty
Honesty
誠(chéng)實(shí)
For any relationship to be successful there must be a sense of trust. Honesty is the glue that holds a relationship together and also an attractive feature. Even when it might not be the most pleasant news to tell a woman, it is better for a man to be open and honest than to tell a lie.
任何一段成功的關(guān)系都離不開(kāi)信任感。誠(chéng)實(shí)不僅能維持彼此間的關(guān)系,也相當(dāng)具有吸引力。雖然有時(shí)把實(shí)情說(shuō)出會(huì)讓人不愉快,但是對(duì)男人而言,公開(kāi)和誠(chéng)實(shí)比說(shuō)謊可要好得多。
confidence
Confidence
自信
Confidence is the key to being attractive. It will grab any woman's attention. And confidence should not be confused with arrogance, which involves a false sense of self. But, rather being confident involves taking stock in who you are (not what you do).
要想有吸引力,關(guān)鍵是要自信。自信會(huì)抓住女性的注意力。但是不要把自信和自大弄混,自大里夾雜著對(duì)自我的虛假認(rèn)識(shí)。自信是相信自己(而不是你所做的事情)。
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