Have you ever experienced that time has passed so fast? Before you notice it, one day or even one week has passed. In another
circumstances, you may feel that you have just made your new year’s
resolution, but suddenly you reach another new year. Time flies.
你是否也有過(guò)時(shí)光飛逝的感覺(jué)?不經(jīng)意間,一天或者一周就這樣過(guò)去了。有時(shí)候,你覺(jué)得離你寫(xiě)下新年計(jì)劃才沒(méi)過(guò)多久,就又迎來(lái)了下一個(gè)新年。歲月如梭?。?/div>
Thus, it is very important for you to use your days wisely. Don’t let even one day passes without fully utilizing it. And one way to
utilize your days is by learning from your daily experience.
因此,好好利用每一天是非常重要的,任何一天都不能浪費(fèi)。要想利用好每一天,那就要向每一天的生活學(xué)習(xí)。
If you really try to learn from your days, you will have 365 to 366 opportunities to learn each year. And that’s quite a lot of opportunities! I bet you will be a very different person after only one year. How do you learn from your daily experience?
如果你每天都能學(xué)到點(diǎn)什么的話(huà),一年就有365到366次學(xué)習(xí)的機(jī)會(huì),這可是大把的機(jī)會(huì)啊!如果你這么做的話(huà),一年后的你肯定是煥然一新了。那么如何向每一天的生活學(xué)習(xí)呢?
渴望無(wú)限
This is the first step. Be eager to learn. Being eager will open your eyes to every situation in your life from which you can learn something. If you are not eager, those opportunities will just pass. Being eager make your mind
alert of every opportunities that lay around.
這是第一步??释麑W(xué)習(xí),渴望對(duì)生活中的一切都睜大眼睛學(xué)習(xí)。如果你沒(méi)有這種渴望的話(huà),那么很多學(xué)習(xí)的機(jī)會(huì)就會(huì)溜走??释麑W(xué)習(xí)讓你對(duì)身邊的每一個(gè)機(jī)會(huì)都更加敏感。
Have an open mind
要有開(kāi)放的視野
To make the most of those opportunities, you need to have an open mind. Try to see from different
perspectives. Try to see from other people’s worldview. Try to put those things in context. In this point, you can ask questions: In what area do I need to change? What have other people done better than me? What can I learn from it? And so on.
要想最大程度地利用好每一天的生活經(jīng)驗(yàn)就要有一個(gè)開(kāi)放的視野。嘗試從不同的角度、從別人的角度看問(wèn)題。嘗試把事情放在大局中來(lái)考慮。你可以問(wèn)問(wèn)自己這些問(wèn)題:在哪些方面我需要做出改變?在哪些方面別人做得比我好?我可以從中學(xué)習(xí)到什么?等等。
Write what you learn
把學(xué)到的東西寫(xiě)下來(lái)
You need to write what you learn. It’s important. First of all, writing forces you to think about it more
thoroughly. You cannot write something which is still
vague. Secondly, it can remind you about those lessons anytime in the future. It’s amazing to see how fast people forget. Writing your lessons ensure you that you will not lose them.
把你學(xué)到的東西寫(xiě)下來(lái)這一點(diǎn)很重要。首先,寫(xiě)下來(lái)就要求你更加全面地了解,你不可能把模棱兩可的東西給寫(xiě)下來(lái)。另外,寫(xiě)下來(lái)的東西可以在以后任何時(shí)候給你做個(gè)提醒。人都是健忘的,把你學(xué)到的東西寫(xiě)下來(lái)可以讓你不把這些東西忘掉。
Be willing to change
樂(lè)于改變
This is the most difficult part of all. Now that you have gotten the lessons you learn, you need to
absorb them to your life. To do so, you need to change. It can be changing your habits, perspectives, or attitudes. Whatever it is, it’s not easy because people tend to stay where they are. Changing means going out of your
comfort zone, and people don’t like it. Yet, not changing simply means not growing. If you are to grow, you need to change, even if it means that you must go out of your comfort zone.
改變是最難的部分。既然你已經(jīng)學(xué)到了一些東西,你就要把它們運(yùn)用到生活中去。要想這么做,就必須改變。你可能需要改變習(xí)慣、看法或觀(guān)點(diǎn),無(wú)論要改變的是什么,對(duì)我們來(lái)說(shuō)都不容易,因?yàn)槲覀兛傁矚g待在原處。改變意味著我們要走出自己的舒適區(qū),這恰恰是人們不喜歡做的事。但是,不改變就不會(huì)進(jìn)步。如果你想要進(jìn)步,就必須要改變,即使付出的代價(jià)是要走出自己的舒適區(qū)。