本杰明的同事遇到了和下屬溝通的問題，很專業(yè)的本杰明怎么做的呢？

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Colleague: I can't stand the stupid guy any longer. It's unbelievable.

Benjamin: Oh, my dear lady, take it easy. You should forgive a green hand like him.

Colleague: He does everything so mindlessly that he is going to drive me crazy.

Benjamin: I suggest you talk with him and teach him how to deal with the problems.

Colleague: I've told him how to do that several times, but he's never listened to me.

Benjamin: Maybe you should communicate with him just like a friend, not a boss.

Colleague: Oh, I always have difficulty in getting along with the staff.

Benjamin: Just take them for your good friends and have a talk with them as we do. Make sure you won't lose your temper!

Colleague: Oh, so bad. I'm afraid I'll change the image of myself.

Benjamin: No, it's unnecessary. Just respect the staff and their own opinions.

Colleague: But sometimes they offer some useless proposals, it's awfully useless.

Benjamin: Oh, no one is perfect.

Colleague: That's right. I should speak to them in a polite way.

Benjamin: All men are equal in the eyes of the God. We have the equal partnership in team.

Colleague: Thanks very much and you're very eloquent.

Benjamin: Thanks for saying that.

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同事:不能忍受那個(gè)愚蠢的家伙了，真是不可思議。

本杰明:噢，親愛的女士，別放心上。原諒像他那樣的新手吧！

同事:他做事總是沒腦子，快把我逼瘋了。

本杰明:我建議你和他談?wù)?，也教教他怎么處理那些問題。

同事:我告訴過他怎么做很多次了，但是他總是不聽我的。

本杰明:或許你應(yīng)該和他以朋友的身份談?wù)劊皇巧纤尽?/p>

同事:噢，我總是和下屬很難相處。

本杰明:把他們當(dāng)成你的好朋友，和他們討論就像我們兩一樣。還要保證不發(fā)脾氣。

同事:噢，太糟了?？峙挛乙淖兾业男蜗罅恕?/p>

本杰明:不，不需要。尊重他們和他們的想法。

同事:但是他們有時(shí)候交上來一些沒用的提議，非常沒用。

本杰明:沒人是完美的。

同事:對(duì)啊。我應(yīng)該對(duì)他們客氣點(diǎn)。

本杰明:上帝眼里每個(gè)人都是公平的。我們?cè)趫F(tuán)隊(duì)里應(yīng)該是平等的。

同事:非常感謝，你總是說話很得體。

本杰明:謝謝你這樣說。

經(jīng)典背誦 Recitation
Colleague: I can't stand the stupid guy any longer. He does everything so mindlessly that he is going to drive me crazy. Benjamin says I should talk with him like friends and respect the staff. But I always have difficulty in getting along with them. I should try to speak with them in a polite way. Yes, I want to have a try.

生詞小結(jié)
mindlessly adj. 沒有頭腦地

lose one's temper 發(fā)脾氣

proposal n. 建議

eloquent adj. 能言善辯的

Functional structure 功能性句型擴(kuò)展
表示應(yīng)該的句型

請(qǐng)朗讀以下句型，家長和孩子交替進(jìn)行。

In my opinion, we should… 我認(rèn)為我們應(yīng)該……

I suggest you should… 我建議你應(yīng)該……

You/ We/ I should… 你（們）/ 我們/ 我應(yīng)該……

You/ We/ I must… 你（們）/ 我們/ 我得……

You may/ could/ ought to… 你應(yīng)該……

It's time to… 是該……的時(shí)侯了。

We are supposed to… 我們應(yīng)該……

It's necessary for you… 你有必要……

You had/ You'd better… 你最好……

It would be wise of sb. to… 某人……是明智的。