Words are so powerful and reflect our thoughts. Here are 6 words commonly used in our everyday conversations with ourselves and others that we need to monitor and change in order to bring about the future we really desire.
語言是有力量的，它能反應(yīng)我們的思想。以下的六個詞在我們的日常對話中常常出現(xiàn)，但是，我們要謹(jǐn)慎使用這些詞，這樣我們夢想的一切才有可能實現(xiàn)。

1.Try
試試

“I’ll try to get it finished by…” “I’ll try to catch up with you on Saturday”. Whenever I hear someone saying this, or even myself, then I know that they are not serious and it is not going to happen.
“我試著在......之前完成?！薄拔以囍芰阋娚弦幻?。”每次我聽到有人這么說，即使是我自己這么說，我就知道說話的人并不在意，他們所說的事也不會實現(xiàn)。

Try is a word that is devoid of commitment, leaving wide open the space for excuses to creep in and get in your way. No one created the life of their dreams and positive results by trying. They got theirs by doing and making it happen.
“試試”這個詞完全沒有約束力，它給了說話人很大的余地去找借口。這世上沒有人是通過“試試”來實現(xiàn)夢想的。要想取得積極的結(jié)果，只有腳踏實地地去干。

Make a clearer commitment instead by saying “I’ll have it done by…” “I am free at this time and I can meet you then…” or if need be, “I can’t promise anything but I will do my best to ….”
別再說“試試”了，你可以換一種更為有約束力的表達(dá)，比如“我會在……之前完成。”“那個時候我有空，我可以在……跟你見面?！比绻銢]有太大的把握，那你就說“我不能向你保證什么，不過我會盡力去……”

2. Wish
希望

Wishing is sitting on your couch daydreaming, waiting for your lotto ball to drop or the fairy godmother to appear.
希望就是坐在沙發(fā)上做白日夢，等著天上掉餡餅，等著仙女賜愿望。

Change wish to “I will…” “I’m determined….”
別在說“希望”了，你可以這樣說“我會做……”“我決定做……”

滬江小編：那些還在猶豫要不要好好學(xué)英語的童鞋們，讓我們行動起來吧，別再說，我“希望”能好好學(xué)英語，要說“我決定”好好學(xué)英語，去網(wǎng)?？纯茨阆矚g的課程吧，從現(xiàn)在就改變！

3. I am
我……

Be very careful how you use the term “I am” to define who you are. You are angry; you are depressed, you are happy. All of these things are temporary emotions that come and go. If you define yourself as being this way than that identity can have a tendency to stick and what will follow will be excuses such as “I can’t do this because I am depressed”
要非常小心用“我……”來表達(dá)自己的情感。你生氣也好，開心也罷，這些感情都是來得快去得也快。如果你用這種來去匆匆的感情來表述自己的話，那么你就很容易給自己找借口了，比如你會說“我不能做這件事，因為我很難過。”

A better way to say it is “I feel angry. I feel depressed” This lets yourself know that it is a temporary feeling which could quite easily change.
換一種表達(dá)，你可以這么說“我感到很生氣，我感到很沮喪?！边@樣說，就是在告訴自己這種感覺只是暫時的，你隨時都可以做出改變。

4. If
如果

How many times do you mutter, “If I get that promotion then…” “If the money arrives then…”“If” always presents the element of doubt. Doubt and insecurity don’t bring you what you want, certainty and confidence does.
還記得你曾經(jīng)多少次喃喃自語“如果我升了職，就會……”“如果那筆錢到了的話，就……”“如果”這個詞經(jīng)常表達(dá)的就是懷疑和不安，這種感覺是不會指引你走向成功的，只有“確定”和“自信”才能助你獲得你想要的。

So instead of “if”, simply make it “when”. “When I get that new job…. ” “When” signals that you are serious and committed and you believe that what you deserve is on its way to you.
別再說“如果”了，你可以簡單地用“當(dāng)…的時候”來表達(dá)。比如“當(dāng)我得到這份新工作的時候……”“當(dāng)…時候”表現(xiàn)出的是你的認(rèn)真和承諾，你相信自己能夠做到，所以你就真的能做到。

滬江小編：有多少人在說，如果我當(dāng)初好好學(xué)習(xí)就好了。記住，凡事沒有如果，沒有后悔藥，只有你的決心和恒心！不要讓自己再說“如果‘了，從現(xiàn)在就開始學(xué)習(xí)（查看課程>>），活到老學(xué)到老！

5. Should
應(yīng)該

Again a promise word, “I should call my mother more.” “I should go to the gym tonight.” Should is rife with feelings of guilt and complacency.
“應(yīng)該”又是一個表示承諾的詞?！拔覒?yīng)該多給媽媽打電話的?！薄拔覒?yīng)該今晚去健身房的。”“應(yīng)該”所表達(dá)的通常都是與內(nèi)疚和自滿有關(guān)的情緒。

You know you are never going to do it and by somehow saying that you recognize you should makes you feel better. It doesn’t really; the only thing that makes you feel better is doing it.
當(dāng)你說“應(yīng)該”的時候，你知道你永遠(yuǎn)也不會去那么做。你這么說只是為了讓自己好過一點(diǎn)。不過，這一點(diǎn)用都沒有，真正有用的做法是，說到做到。

Should can be turned in to “I will…” or “I am going to…”
別再說“應(yīng)該”了，你可以這樣說“我要去……”“我打算去……”

6. I can’t
我不行

We’ve all heard there is no such thing as can’t. As soon as your brain hears you say the word can’t, it goes on a holiday. It shuts down and celebrates because it no longer has to find a way to do it.
我們都聽說過這樣一種說法“沒有什么是做不了的”。一旦你的大腦聽到你說“我不行”，它就去放大假了。大腦關(guān)閉了所有的思考系統(tǒng)去慶祝了，因為它再也不用努力去找方法解決問題了。

Choose your words carefully and you’ll soon learn that you can be, do, and have whatever you want.
謹(jǐn)慎地選擇你的語言，不久你就會發(fā)現(xiàn)你可以得到，會得到，將得到你想要的一切。