華中師范大學(xué)武漢傳媒學(xué)院播音主持專業(yè)大二女生余丹丹這兩天將摘抄的《新婚姻法》“夫妻雙方房產(chǎn)分配規(guī)則”張貼于桌前，宣告從此每天對(duì)著這張“勵(lì)志紙”發(fā)奮苦學(xué)?，F(xiàn)在余丹丹正在準(zhǔn)備考四級(jí)，每天堅(jiān)持背20個(gè)單詞，還要完成一篇英語(yǔ)閱讀等等，她表示，自己也會(huì)有想偷懶的時(shí)候，但一抬頭看看自己手繪的“新婚姻法”和那些激勵(lì)自己的話，就有動(dòng)力了，比如昨天同寢室女生結(jié)伴出去逛街，她心里也癢癢的，但一抬頭看到這張《婚姻法》，她又有坐下來(lái)學(xué)習(xí)的動(dòng)力了?！芭⒆涌孔约罕仁裁炊紡?qiáng)！”

“以后不能靠老公，女人想活得有底氣，只能靠自己！”余丹丹說(shuō)，新《婚姻法》中這兩條的修改，能抑制一些女生物質(zhì)至上的扭曲愛(ài)情觀。她制作這張“勵(lì)志紙”，就是為了時(shí)刻提醒自己：只有增強(qiáng)自身實(shí)力，努力奮斗打拼才能自立自強(qiáng)，才能在婚姻中找到安全感?！芭梢宰约簰赍X、自己買房，誰(shuí)說(shuō)買房就是男生的事？”

【滬江小編】“三八”婦女節(jié)之際看到這樣的新聞是不是特別的振奮呢？掙錢養(yǎng)家、獨(dú)立自主早已經(jīng)不是男人的專項(xiàng)了。巾幗不讓須眉，女子能頂半邊天也不只是嘴巴上說(shuō)說(shuō)的了。越來(lái)越多的女孩子愿意為了自己的為了奮斗打拼，小編覺(jué)得不只是因?yàn)椤缎禄橐龇ā返某雠_(tái)，更是女孩子們都有了勇氣和底氣。祝所有的女同胞們節(jié)日快樂(lè)！

【新聞關(guān)鍵詞】

新婚姻法：the new Marriage Law

“新婚姻法”自一出臺(tái)就引發(fā)了各界的熱烈討論，最高法院全文公布的《關(guān)于適用若干問(wèn)題的解釋(三)》(征求意見(jiàn)稿)，21個(gè)條文涵蓋了房子、孩子、票子、“小三”等若干婚姻新問(wèn)題的處理。

“How can the new Marriage Law be this harsh towards women? The male chauvinism is too serious!” Netizen Chen Di expressed her view through her microblog, and the number of netizens who shared her opinion were not the minority, with many female netizens believing “this sweeps aside the last obstacle against men being unfaithful” and “will cause the divorce rate to go up”.
“新婚姻法怎么對(duì)女的這么刻薄?大男子主義太嚴(yán)重了!”網(wǎng)友陳狄通過(guò)微博表達(dá)了自己的看法，與之持相同意見(jiàn)的網(wǎng)友不占少數(shù)，不少女網(wǎng)友認(rèn)為“這為男人出軌掃清了最后的障礙”、“會(huì)造成離婚率上升”。

In comparison to the swelling voices of condemnation, some supporting viewpoints believe the new Marriage Law strongly combats the phenomenon of “deceiving someone into marriage” [for their assets], and at the same time also gives the young men of ordinary families a chance to compete with the “wealthy second generation” [children of rich parents].
較之此起彼伏的聲討聲音，一些支持的觀點(diǎn)認(rèn)為新婚姻法強(qiáng)烈打擊了“騙婚”的現(xiàn)象，同時(shí)也給普通家庭的男青年與富二代競(jìng)爭(zhēng)的機(jī)會(huì)。

There were also female netizens who expressed that the new Marriage Law lets women see clearly that “men are unreliable, one can only rely on oneself”, and “Women of the new age definitely should be able to buy houses by themselves, buy cars by themselves, and become more and more independent and strong.
也有女網(wǎng)友表示新婚姻法讓女性看清“男的不可靠，只有自己才是可靠的”，“新時(shí)代的女性就應(yīng)該是自個(gè)兒買得起房，開(kāi)得起車，越來(lái)越獨(dú)立自強(qiáng)。”

勵(lì)志格言：motivational quotes

其實(shí)除了摘抄“新婚姻法”如此霸氣的勵(lì)志法外，我們也可以選擇一些勵(lì)志格言來(lái)給自己提提醒~

The purpose of life is to live it, to taste experience to the utmost, to reach out eagerly and without fear for newer and richer experience.
生命的意義在于盡情生活，拼命體驗(yàn)，勇往直前無(wú)所畏懼地去追求更嶄新更豐富的人生經(jīng)歷。

You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think.
你比你想象中更勇敢，比你看起來(lái)更強(qiáng)大，也比你以為的更聰明。

You always have two choices when you wake up: wake up & sleep again & continue dreaming; wake up & stand up & make your dreams come true.
當(dāng)你每天醒來(lái)的時(shí)候都有兩個(gè)選擇：1、醒來(lái)，再睡，繼續(xù)未完的美夢(mèng)；2、醒來(lái)，站起來(lái)，去實(shí)現(xiàn)自己的夢(mèng)想。

life is like a roller coaster, it has its ups and downs. But it's your choice to scream or enjoy the ride.
人生就像是坐過(guò)山車，總歸有起起落落。你可以選擇恐懼尖叫，也可以選擇享受過(guò)程。

Face the past with the least regrets, face the present with the least waste and face the future with the most dreams.
不悔恨過(guò)去；不荒廢現(xiàn)在；充滿夢(mèng)想，面對(duì)未來(lái)。

We all have moments of desperation. But if we can face them head on, that's when we find out just how strong we really are.
我們都有絕望的時(shí)候，只有在勇敢面對(duì)時(shí)，我們才知道自己有多堅(jiān)強(qiáng)。
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