今天是孔子誕辰2562周年，他是影響世界的中國(guó)十大名人。他的話語涉及親情、愛情、友情、工作、學(xué)習(xí)等諸多人生哲學(xué)，雖然我們沒有見過他，但這不影響他的思想澤被后世，源遠(yuǎn)流長(zhǎng)。趕緊一起數(shù)數(shù)孔子教會(huì)我們的那些事兒~~

1.孔子教會(huì)我們的人生——“三十而立，四十不惑”。

Confucius said: "At fifteen my heart was set on learning; at thirty I stood firm; at forty I had no more doubts."
子曰:「吾十有五而志于學(xué), 三十而立, 四十而不惑。

[解讀]人生目標(biāo)分階段：30歲要自力更生。

2.孔子教我們孝敬父母——“父在，觀其志；父沒，觀其行”

Confucius said: "When your father is alive, observe his will. When your father is dead observe his former actions. If, for three years you do not change from the ways of your father, you can be called a 'real son .'"
子曰:「父在, 觀其志; 父沒, 觀其行; 三年無改于父之道,可謂孝矣。」

[解讀]不孝順父母表現(xiàn)：不說一聲就去“北漂”；孝順父母表現(xiàn)：聽爸爸媽媽的話。

3.孔子教我們戀愛結(jié)婚－－“窈窕淑女，君子好逑”

A good young man is wooing a maiden fair he loves.
子曰:「窈窕淑女, 君子好逑」

[解讀]最佳戀愛對(duì)象：女選君子男選淑女；最佳模范夫妻：老公尊重老婆。

4.孔子教我們交朋友－－“見賢思齊焉，見不賢而內(nèi)自省也”

Confucius said: "When you see a good person, think of becoming like her/him. When you see someone not so good, reflect on your own weak points."
子曰:「見賢思齊焉;見不賢而內(nèi)自省也?！?/div>

[解讀]不能交的朋友：道德品行不端的人；選什么樣的朋友：說話算數(shù)講誠(chéng)信的人。

5.孔子教我們學(xué)習(xí)——“知之為知之，不知為不知”“三人行，必有我?guī)熝?，擇其善者而從之，其不善者而改之?！?/strong>

Confucius said: "Yu, shall I teach you about knowledge? What you know, you know, what you don't know, you don't know. This is knowledge."
子曰:「由，誨女知之乎。知之為知之,不知為不知,是知也?！?/div>

Confucius said: "Among any three people walking, I will find something to learn for sure. Their good qualities are to be followed, and their shortcomings are to be avoided"
子曰:「三人行，必有我?guī)熝桑瑩衿渖普叨鴱闹?，其不善者而改之?！?/div>

[解讀]學(xué)習(xí)態(tài)度：別不懂裝懂；學(xué)習(xí)方法：要常動(dòng)腦子思考；學(xué)習(xí)守則：好好學(xué)習(xí)才能天天向上。

6.孔子教我們處世——“己所不欲﹐勿施于人?！?/strong>

Confucius said: "what you do not want to be done unto yourself, do not do unto others"
子曰﹕「“己所不欲﹐勿施于人。”」

[解讀]自己不想做的事不要強(qiáng)加給別人。

7.孔子教我們處理工作——“欲速則不達(dá)，見小利，則大事不成”

More haste, less speed.
欲速則不達(dá)。

[解讀]面試：不被錄用也不怨恨；第一份工作：不要怕從底層做起

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