4. He won't go out of his way to plan anything special.
4. 他不會(huì)不怕麻煩準(zhǔn)備任何特別的驚喜

Players are usually seeing a few women at one time, which often means they can't be bothered to devote a lot of energy to any one of them.
花花公子往往同時(shí)約會(huì)著好幾個(gè)女人，所以他們不會(huì)把大量精力都只放在一個(gè)女人身上。

A player will often do what's convenient for him. It's unlikely he's going to surprise you with tickets to that play you've been dying to see, or make any romantic gestures.
他們往往會(huì)做自己方便的事情。指望花花公子奉上你期待已久的演出門(mén)票給你驚喜？或是其他浪漫舉動(dòng)？想都表想了！

5. He doesn't want to get involved in your life.
5. 他不想融入你的生活

Players want casual relationships. That means they get panic at the idea of meeting parents, or getting involved with your friends,or any activity which makes him feel like he's in a couple.
很隨便的關(guān)系才是花花公子想要的。所以你如果想讓他們見(jiàn)父母、融入你的朋友圈、或是參加任何會(huì)讓他感到你們是一對(duì)兒的活動(dòng)，花花公子會(huì)非常頭疼。

Guys who want something serious with you will be interested in becoming a bigger part of your life. On the other hand, players are always planning their exit. They never want too much emotional attachment, because they're scared of feeling guilty when they move on to someone else.
認(rèn)認(rèn)真真和你談戀愛(ài)的男人會(huì)希望成為你生活中更大的一部分。而花花公子卻總在計(jì)劃怎么撤退。他們從來(lái)不想有太多的感情依戀，因?yàn)樗麄儾幌胍坏Q了枕邊人會(huì)心頭有愧。

Watch out for these sure signs and you'll have no problems spotting the players early on!
小心這些明確的信號(hào)，這樣你就能盡早識(shí)別出花花公子的真面目了！

So by now you should understand exactly what type of guys are players and who you need to avoid if you want a chance at developing some kind of relationship. Players don't care about your feelings, they just care for themselves, so it's really not worthy our time to try and change them - because they won't change!
好了，現(xiàn)在你應(yīng)該能準(zhǔn)確的判斷出什么樣的男人是花花公子了，如果你想要發(fā)展一段穩(wěn)定的關(guān)系，就知道該避開(kāi)誰(shuí)了?；ɑü硬挪辉诤跄愕母惺苣?，他們只顧自己，所以真的不值得你花時(shí)間去嘗試改變他們——他們是狗改不了吃屎！