9 怎樣開口

Taking an interest in her life, job or anything else that she likes to talk about is a must for first date conversations. You can do that by asking questions like, “How did your job/hobby/interest start?”
在初次約會(huì)的時(shí)候，聊聊她的生活、工作之類她樂意聊的話題是必須的。你可以用“你的工作、愛好、興趣是怎么開始的呀？”作為開頭。

8 談夢(mèng)想

Contrary to popular opinion, women don’t only want to talk about themselves; they also want to see what’s going on with you. When it comes to dreams, expressing yours will make her gain some interesting insight into you, and she’ll love that you can open up to her.
與大家通常所想的不同，女人在約會(huì)的時(shí)候不僅僅是想聊聊自己的問題；她們也會(huì)想要了解你。不要吝嗇于談?wù)勀愕膲?mèng)想，這會(huì)讓她對(duì)你有更深一層的了解，她會(huì)很高興看到你對(duì)她敞開心扉的。

7 不要老是說我朋友怎樣怎樣

Throwing in a word about your friend and something interesting he said or did will show your date that you have some awesome mates. Just make sure you don’t fall into the trap of going on and on about your friends to the point where you are taking focus away from your date.
跟她聊聊你朋友的事情，或者你朋友說的或者做的好玩的事會(huì)讓你的約會(huì)對(duì)象覺得你朋友很多。但是千萬(wàn)不要總跟她聊你朋友的事，這會(huì)讓她覺得你的注意力都沒放在她的身上。

6 多笑笑

The sound of your laughter is always something she wants to hear. It shows her that she has a great sense of humor and you find her delightful. Just try not to overdo it, and always keep it genuine.
初次約會(huì)的時(shí)候不要介意多笑一笑。這會(huì)讓她感覺到你覺得她很可愛。但是也不要做得太過，最重要的是要表現(xiàn)出你的真誠(chéng)。

5 多聊聊經(jīng)歷

Sometimes the best way to get to know someone is through personal anecdotes. So go on and share an experience that stands out as a great memory.
有時(shí)候了解一個(gè)人的最佳方式就是了解他的一些小趣聞。所以不要害怕跟她分享讓你記憶深刻的經(jīng)歷哦。

4 我玩得很高興

By the end of the first date, both parties need to know if the other had a fun time or not. If you had a good time with her, then tell her. She will really appreciate hearing it.
約會(huì)結(jié)束時(shí)，雙方都想知道對(duì)方在此次約會(huì)中是否開心。如果和她約會(huì)很快樂，那么千萬(wàn)不要害怕告訴她哦。聽見你這么說她會(huì)很高興的。

3 別忘了為下次約會(huì)做鋪墊

Of course you don’t know if she had a fun time, but you can set a platform for a future date, mention a great sushi bar or Italian restaurant you’ve dined at recently, and ask her if she’s been there.(plus, it’s an easy way to bring up other topics).
你不知道此次約會(huì)她是否滿意，不過也別忘了為下一次約會(huì)做鋪墊，你可以說說你最近去過的某個(gè)不錯(cuò)的壽司店或者意大利餐廳，問問她有沒有去過那里。（另外這也是開啟新話題的不錯(cuò)方式哦~）

2 多談?wù)勛约旱呐d趣愛好

It’s good to let her know a bit more about yourself. She’ll love to hear about your interests and hobbies. Divulging information about yourself enables you both to see if you’re on the same wavelength. Plus, she’ll love that you’re offering some info about yourself without her having to ask all the questions.
讓她多了解你一些沒什么不好。她會(huì)很樂意了解你的興趣愛好。透露一些關(guān)于你的信息會(huì)讓你們互相之間了解某些話題上是否有同感。另外她肯定也愿意看到你主動(dòng)談?wù)勛约旱氖虑?，而不是所有事情都要她親口來(lái)問。

1 別忘了主動(dòng)付賬

There’s nothing wrong with going Dutch on a first date, but it’s really the gentlemanly thing to pick up the bill for her. When she reaches into her purse, tell her that you have it covered. She’ll be impressed that you took the effort for her and your chivalry will increase your chances of a second date.
初次約會(huì)AA制也沒什么問題，但是主動(dòng)為她買單會(huì)體現(xiàn)出你紳士的一面。當(dāng)她準(zhǔn)備掏錢的時(shí)候告訴她你已經(jīng)幫她付過帳了。你的行為會(huì)給她留下個(gè)好印象并增加促成下次約會(huì)的可能性哦。

小知識(shí)：Dutch在英語(yǔ)中就是指荷蘭人。為什么AA制要叫做go Dutch呢？16~17世紀(jì)時(shí)的荷蘭和威尼斯，是海上商品貿(mào)易和早期資源共享本主義的發(fā)跡之地。因?yàn)樯倘说牧鲃?dòng)性很強(qiáng)，一個(gè)人請(qǐng)別人的客，被請(qǐng)的人說不定這輩子再也碰不到了，為了大家不吃虧，彼此分?jǐn)偙闶亲詈玫倪x擇了。而荷蘭人因其精明、凡事都要分清楚，逐漸形成了let's go Dutch（讓我們做荷蘭人）的俗語(yǔ)。所以大家以后談到AA制的時(shí)候別忘了它的英語(yǔ)表達(dá)方式哦~我們一起大聲讀 go Dutch!!AA制??！