5.Complaining in a relationship
在一段感情中進(jìn)行抱怨

Probably the most difficult complaint of all! This is how to complain to your partner about a problem!
也許是最困難一種情況!這里就是如何向你的伴侶抱怨一個(gè)問(wèn)題!

Of course things will be very delicate here, one wrong word can be catastrophic.
現(xiàn)在，當(dāng)然事情會(huì)很微妙，一個(gè)錯(cuò)誤的詞可能會(huì)引起災(zāi)難性的后果。

Be careful…
要小心…

Perhaps you are having an argument, perhaps something is unfair but whatever it is it probably isn’t worth losing your partner for it!
也許你們?cè)跔?zhēng)論，也許有些事情是不公平的，但不管怎樣，這件事可能不值得讓你失去你的伴侶!

Useful Phrases for this include:
這種情況下有用的短語(yǔ)有：

I feel like you’re not listening to me.
我覺(jué)得你沒(méi)在聽(tīng)我說(shuō)話。

Please, just hear me out (listen to me).
請(qǐng)聽(tīng)我說(shuō)(聽(tīng)我說(shuō))。

Let’s compromise (find a solution we both like).
請(qǐng)聽(tīng)我說(shuō)(聽(tīng)我說(shuō)).

Let’s just take a minute and think.
讓我們花一分鐘想想。

Let’s work this out (find a solution).
讓我們花一分鐘想想。

We need to talk about something.
我們需要談一談。

Check out the dialogue:
讓我們看一下對(duì)話：

A: Love, we need to talk about something.
A:親愛(ài)的，我們需要談一下。

B: What is it?
B:怎么了？

A: I’m really unhappy that you didn’t come to my grandma’s birthday party.
A: 你沒(méi)有來(lái)我祖母的生日宴會(huì)，我真的很難過(guò)。

B: Really? But you told me it was fine!
B:真的嘛？但是你告訴我這么關(guān)系的啊！

A: Please, just hear me out.
A:請(qǐng)你聽(tīng)我說(shuō)完。

B: Okay.
B:好的。

A: I would have loved it if you had come with me and in future I would like you to come to all my family occasions.
A: 如果你和我一起來(lái)，我會(huì)很開(kāi)心。將來(lái)我希望你能來(lái)參加我所有的家庭聚會(huì)。

B: Let’s just take a minute to think, what is the point in me doing that?
B:讓我想一下，我這么做的意義是什么？

A: I feel like you’re not listening to me! I always want you to be with me! Come on, let’s work this out.
A:我覺(jué)得你沒(méi)有在聽(tīng)我講話！我一直想要你和我在一起。來(lái)我們一起解決一下這個(gè)問(wèn)題。

B: Okay, let’s compromise, I will try harder to make time for your family events.
B:好，我們都各讓一步，我會(huì)盡力為你家的事情騰出時(shí)間。

Using the words we’ve mentioned, you can keep your relationship healthy and that will make you happy! Stay calm and use the vocabulary to make sure that you both get what you want.
用我們上文提及到的詞匯，這可以保持你們良好的關(guān)系且是你們愉快。保持冷靜，使用以上的短語(yǔ)來(lái)確保你們都得到了你們想要的結(jié)果。

6. Complaining in the workplace
在工作崗位抱怨

This is another situation where you have to be calm. This is your job we’re talking about!
這是另一種你需要保持冷靜的場(chǎng)合。我們談?wù)摰木褪悄愕墓ぷ鳎?/div>

Let’s try to communicate better.
讓我們嘗試著更好的交流。

Take a deep breath.
深呼吸。

We are a team.
我們是一個(gè)團(tuán)隊(duì)。

We have to be professional.
我們必須變的專業(yè)。

Here’s a dialogue!
這里是一個(gè)對(duì)話！

A: I want to lodge a complaint against my manager.
A:我要投訴我的經(jīng)理。

B: Okay, what’s the problem?
B: 好的。出現(xiàn)了什么問(wèn)題？

A: I am not happy with the way he talks to me, he is such an idiot!
A:他對(duì)我說(shuō)話的方式讓我很不開(kāi)心，他就是一個(gè)傻子！

B: Okay, Take a deep breath, we have to be professional.
B:好的，深呼吸冷靜一下，我們必須專業(yè)一點(diǎn)。

A: I’m sorry but I feel badly treated.
A: 我很抱歉，但是我受到了不好的待遇。

B: It’s alright, but let’s try to communicate better to solve the problem.
B:好，我們知道了，讓我們進(jìn)一步交流來(lái)解決這個(gè)問(wèn)題。

A: Yes, I know we are a team and we have to be professional.
A：是的，我知道我們是一個(gè)團(tuán)隊(duì)，我們必須專業(yè)一點(diǎn)。

It’s important to put the focus onto solving problems rather than creating new ones. Be open to other people’s ideas and make sure you’re being reasonable.
把重點(diǎn)放在解決問(wèn)題上而不是制造新的問(wèn)題，這一點(diǎn)很重要。要接納包容他人的想法，保證你是理性的。

So in summary…
總之…

With complaints in English it’s important to:
用英語(yǔ)進(jìn)行抱怨這幾點(diǎn)很重要：

Keep your cool and stay calm.
保持冷靜。

Use a lot of vocabulary, particularly adjectives to fully describe your situation.
使用大量詞匯尤其是形容詞來(lái)描述你的境遇。

Be polite! People will be more willing to help you if you use manners and treat them with respect. Remember it’s probably not their fault!
舉止禮貌！如果你以禮待人尊重他人，人們會(huì)很樂(lè)意幫助你。記得這可能并不是他們的錯(cuò)誤！

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