There will be times when you are met with disappointment instead of success. Life won't always turn out the way you want. This is just another thing you'll have to learn to deal with. But instead of letting these things get you down, push on. Accept disappointment and learn to persevere, to pursue your dreams despite pitfalls. Learn to turn negatives into positives, and you'll do much better in life.

有時(shí)你會(huì)遭遇挫折而非成功。生活并不總會(huì)如你所愿。這是另一件你需要學(xué)會(huì)處理的事情。但你要挺住向前，而不是讓這些事讓你陷入低谷。接受挫敗并學(xué)會(huì)堅(jiān)持，不畏困難地追求你的夢(mèng)想。學(xué)會(huì)把消極轉(zhuǎn)化為積極，之后你就能做得好得多。

You will also face heartbreak and abandonment by those you love. I hope you don't have to face this too much, but it happens. Again, not much you can do but to heal, and to move on with your life. Let these pains become stepping stones to better things in life, and learn to use them to make you stronger.

你同樣會(huì)面臨心碎時(shí)刻以及被深愛的人拋棄。我希望你無須經(jīng)歷太多此類事件，但這樣的事總會(huì)發(fā)生。同樣，你做不了什么，只能慢慢愈合心中的創(chuàng)傷并繼續(xù)你的生活。讓這些痛苦成為你通向更美好生活的墊腳石，并學(xué)會(huì)利用它們讓自己更堅(jiān)強(qiáng)。


But Be Open to life Anyway

但無論如何，都要張開雙臂擁抱生活


Yes, you'll find cruelty and suffering in your journey through life … but don't let that close you to new things. Don't retreat from life, don't hide or wall yourself off. Be open to new things, new experiences, new people.

是的，在你的生命歷程中你會(huì)遇到殘酷、煎熬……但不要因此拒絕接受新鮮事物。不要逃避生活，不要躲藏，抑或封閉自己。擁抱新鮮事物，經(jīng)歷全新體驗(yàn)，接觸新的人。


You might get your heart broken 10 times, but find the most wonderful woman the 11th time. If you shut yourself off from love, you'll miss out on that woman, and the happiest times of your life.

你或許心碎了10次，但是在第十一次找到至愛。如果你把自己關(guān)在愛的門外，你就會(huì)錯(cuò)過這個(gè)女子，錯(cuò)過你生命中最快樂的時(shí)光。


You might get teased and bullied and hurt by people you meet … and then after meeting dozens of jerks, find a true friend. If you close yourself off to new people, and don't open your heart to them, you'll avoid pain … but also lose out on meeting some incredible people, who will be there during the toughest times of your life and create some of the best times of your life.

你可能會(huì)被你遇到的人恥笑欺負(fù)傷害……而在碰到無數(shù)這樣的家伙后，你會(huì)找到一個(gè)真正的朋友。如果你拒絕接觸新人群，并不向他們敞開心扉，你會(huì)避免受傷…… 但是同時(shí)也失去了認(rèn)識(shí)一些很棒的人的機(jī)會(huì)，他們會(huì)在你生命最困難的時(shí)刻陪伴著你，并帶給你人生當(dāng)中最美好的時(shí)光。


You will fail many times but if you allow that to stop you from trying, you will miss out on the amazing feeling of success once you reach new heights with your accomplishments. Failure is a stepping stone to success.

你會(huì)失敗多次但是如果你讓失敗打到了你，不再努力，你就會(huì)錯(cuò)過那種當(dāng)你達(dá)到成就新高度時(shí)的那種絕妙的成就感。失敗是成功之母。


Life Isn't a Competition

生命不是一場(chǎng)競(jìng)賽


You will meet many people who will try to outdo you, in school, in college, at work. They'll try to have nicer cars, bigger houses, nicer clothes, cooler gadgets. To them, life is a competition — they have to do better than their peers to be happy.

你會(huì)遇到一些人他們總是試圖超過你，在中學(xué)，在大學(xué)，在工作中。他們想要擁有更好的車，更大的房子，更好的衣物，更酷的小玩意。對(duì)他們來說，生命就是一場(chǎng)競(jìng)賽——他們不得不比同輩做得更好來讓自己感到快樂。