辯論無贏家，為啥呢？
You can't win an argument. You can't because if you lose it, you lose it; and if you win it, you lose it. Why? Well, suppose you triumph over the other man and shoot his argument full of holes and prove that he is non compos mentis. Then what? You will feel fine. But what about him? You have made him feel inferior. You have hurt his pride. He will resent your triumph.
你不能贏得一場爭論。 你不能，是因?yàn)槿绻爿斄四蔷褪禽斄?；如果你贏了，你也輸了。為啥乜？好吧，假設(shè)你贏了你的對手， 把他打的落花流水、體無完膚，證明他神志不清。然后乜？你感覺很HIGH。但是他呢？你讓他感到自卑。你摧毀了他的驕傲。他將對你的勝利感到憤怒。 ——譯文來自: rover12