每個(gè)人都渴望被人愛(ài)，可是當(dāng)你發(fā)現(xiàn)你盡了最大的努力還是無(wú)法做到讓每個(gè)人都喜歡你，會(huì)怎么樣呢？
Not everybody has to love me or even like me. I don't necessarily like everybody I know, so why should everybody else like me? I enjoy being liked and being loved, but if somebody doesn't like me, I will still be okay and still feel like I am an okay person. I cannot make somebody like me anymore than somebody can get me to like them. I don't need approval all the time. If someone does not approve of me, I will still be okay.
我不需要每個(gè)人都愛(ài)我，或者，每個(gè)人都喜歡我。就像我也沒(méi)必要去愛(ài)所有的人。我知道這點(diǎn)，所以為什么還要強(qiáng)求別人的愛(ài)呢？我喜歡被其他人欣賞和愛(ài)的感覺(jué)，但是如果有人不喜歡我，我也不會(huì)覺(jué)得很糟。我依然會(huì)認(rèn)為自己是個(gè)沒(méi)什么問(wèn)題的人。我不能讓每個(gè)人都喜歡我，就如同別人也不能隨意讓我去喜歡他們一樣。我從不需要?jiǎng)e人的肯定。即使別人否定了我，我依然是我的自己。 ——譯文來(lái)自: pluie_v