Struggling to meet someone new? Following these simple yet insightful dating rules might be just be exactly what you need.

正在為和新朋友約會而發(fā)愁嗎？照著以下這些見解非凡的簡單法則去做的話，收獲可能會超出你的期待。

Love Yourself First

首先要愛自己

Have you ever noticed that happy people get more attention? And if you are happy with yourself, it shows. So in order to attract more people into your life for dating purposes, focus on the things that make you happy. Try writing a large piece of paper full of ideas that you can use in a pinch, such as taking a hot bath, going for a bike ride or filling your home with plants. Then, pick three items from this list every day with conscious effort, knowing that the time you take tending to increasing your own personal joy will increase the pull others feel to learn more about who you are.

你是否注意到快樂的人更能吸引別人的注意呢？如果你自己感到快樂的話，就能收獲更多的快樂。所以為了吸引更多人和你約會，努力讓自己快樂起來吧。試著在一張紙上寫滿能讓你快樂的主意，如泡個熱水澡，騎車，將家里擺滿盆栽植物。然后，每天在這張清單上挑三種方法，用心地去照著做，要知道你花在讓自己快樂的時間越多，你就越能吸引別人想要更多的了解你。

Review Your Relationship Expectations

重新審視你對這段關(guān)系的期待

If you shake your head within seconds of meeting someone, rank them against a checklist in your head, or have stringent guidelines about who you will and won't meet, it is time to revamp your relationship expectations. When trying to meet someone new, it is imperative that you let go of your preconceived notions about who the perfect partner is.

如果你因為想到要和某人約會而搖頭的話，將他們列入黑名單，或者如果對你想和誰不和誰約會有嚴格的標準劃分的話，你就要開始重新修訂你對約會的期望了。當你嘗試去認識新朋友的時候，當務(wù)之急是你要拋開誰是你的最佳朋友的偏見。

Cut Ties To Your Ex

斷絕與前女友的聯(lián)系

Although this dating rule may be contentious for some readers, it is still an important step in the dating process. Just like a spring cleaning clears your space of clutter and cobwebs, removing an ex still present in your life after a breakup can free you to meet someone new. Of course there are circumstances where this may not be possible - such as if you have children together or work in the same office. But whenever possible, you need to remove your ex from your personal life, even if it is only temporary.

也許有些讀者對這個建議有爭議，但是這在約會中仍然是很重要的事情。就好像給你關(guān)系網(wǎng)中錯綜復(fù)雜的關(guān)系來個大掃除一樣，與前任斷絕關(guān)系的話可以給你重新開始的機會。當然了，也有些情況是不能這樣做的，比如你們共同撫養(yǎng)小孩，或者在同一個辦公室工作。但是只要有可能的話，你都要讓前任從你的私生活中消失，哪怕是暫時性這樣做也可以。